Gloria Aguirre, El Rancho High School parent of senior high school student twins, Melissa and Michelle Aguirre, 17, shares with Michelle Sandoval, program lead for Generation 1st Degree programs, about her family’s college preparation experience.
Tell us about your family.
We’re a family of 6. My husband is from Zacatecas, Mexico, and is the breadwinner for our home. I’ve been a stay at home mom for the last 5 years. So in our house of 6, we have Madeline and Melissa who are 17, and 2 younger boys who are 6 and 9 years old. They’re into sports and Melissa and Madeline are into choir. Madeline is really involved in politics, and Melissa is still part of her MIT program that ends in January.
As Melissa and Madeline are applying to college, what has the process been like for you seeing them go through it?
They have always been on top of things. I’ve never really had to push them to do anything. I know that being part of Generation 1st Degree’s programs has introduced them to a lot of new things. It guides and gives them a structure. I can’t say it was me…. I can’t say it is mommy or daddy pushing them, because it was more the programs on campus. They have always had a goal since they were young and they had a vision and because they can see that, they are self-driven. So with all of the opportunities offered here at the high school it just makes things easier for them.
What opportunities from Generation 1st Degree programs have they participated in that has shaped them as they apply to college?
I remember something in particular with Madeline. She met one of the guest speakers last summer who is a lawyer. Because that is Madeline’s interest (becoming a lawyer) and hearing how the guest speaker got to her goal and how she did it really inspired her. Madeline came home and said, “Mommy, I have to do this and that….” and started listing all of the things the lawyer said. So having guest speakers come out and expose them to the professions they are interested in has really shaped and helped them continue to stay focused on what they have to do to get ready for college.
For Melissa, she’s my undercover bright little girl. She’s self-driven…they both have always had the vision so for me it’s easy to say that I really haven’t done much. They know their goals and anything that has to do with college; they are already know what to do, so all of the programs through Generation 1st Degree and Be A Leader only make it better for them. It’s part of their structure.
And for you, as a parent, what has been the biggest help or opportunity that you think you’ve been exposed to with Be A Leader and the twins’ participation in all of the college prep programs?
I think, as a parent, the girls being part Generation 1st Degree – Pico Rivera and being provided the tools through these programs has been the biggest help. We are so fortunate that they are able to provide those tools to our high school. I’m very grateful…beyond grateful for what they’ve done to make our life easier. Because ultimately these kids have goals and it’s not that we’re not ready as parents to help. For me, I think I’m a great mentor for them, but the structure that the programs have provided makes our life easier. The unknown is a little scary as far as where they’re going to end up for college, but ultimately, I know they’ve got las ganas and I know they have the vision and goals, and I can see them reaching high.